There are different stages of life and each dictates how much free time you have and how you choose to spend it.

Today, my wife and I are spending a Saturday in Mission Dolores Park, which attracts quite a diverse crowd of San Franciscians. This is our first visit to this outdoor venue and part of our “try as much as possible in our new home” adventure.

Last year, we were recovering from losing Judy’s dad, which caused us to consider downsizing our Houston home that once held six of us. Our kids are all in their twenties and were becoming more independent. It forced us to reevaluate what we as a couple should do next.

Then one morning in April, an email from Cupertino started us down a dramatic new path.

I've lost two friends in one week.

Both men were generous and loving individuals. Both were active members in their respective communities. Both died too young.